"I'm not so good with the advice... Can I interest you in a sarcastic comment?"
so we all know how awesome FRIENDS is...A lot of my friends are under the impression that the epic series is about Friendship, sure it is..all of the characters do value friendship, but it is when people suggest that friendship was what was most important is when i begin to go against the popular opinion. Let me ask you, how many times has Joey ditched Chandler for a girl? Now i do not say that Joey does not care about his Friend, it may however be the case that Joey knows Chandler will understand...This situation, however is different from when Chandler lied to Joey to spend time with Monica, that is ok, because they were in love, there is no comparison between the two relationships, because anyday, Monica is more important to Chandler, and Joey, being the great Friend that he is, understands that.
That is a series, i have observed however that in the "real world", Friends refuse to register this particular fact and are unable to let go, blessed i am with an amazing friend who does not need such petty reassurances of our friendship and can be awesome even if we met after ages, this however is not the case with most people, some of my other friends have not fared so well in the department...so moral of this para is that let your friends live, do not expect yourself to be the most important person in anyone's life, and if you do, please do not confront them, just keep it to yourself. :)
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